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Sunday, September 19, 2010

Please do not fail to read this ! though bit long, it is worth !!

It was probably the April of 1974. Bangalore was getting warm and gulmohars were blooming at the IISc campus. I was the only girl in my postgraduate department and was staying at the ladies' hostel. Other girls were pursuing research in different departments of Science. I was looking forward to going abroad to complete a doctorate in computer science. I had been offered scholarships from Universities in the US... I had not thought of taking up a job in India.

One day, while on the way to my hostel from our lecture-hall complex, I saw an advertisement on the notice board. It was a standard job-requirement notice from the famous automobile company Telco (now Tata Motors)... It stated that the company required young, bright engineers, hardworking and with an excellent academic background, etc.

At the bottom was a small line: 'Lady Candidates need not apply.' I read it and was very upset. For the first time in my life I was up against gender discrimination.

Though I was not keen on taking up the job, I saw it as a challenge. I had done extremely well in academics, better than most of my male peers... Little did I know then that in real life academic excellence is not enough to be successful?

After reading the notice I went fuming to my room. I decided to inform the topmost person in Telco's management about the injustice the company was perpetrating. I got a postcard and started to write, but there was a problem: I did not know who headed Telco

I thought it must be one of the Tatas. I knew JRD Tata was the head of the Tata Group; I had seen his pictures in newspapers (actually, Sumant Moolgaokar was the company's chairman then) I took the card, addressed it to JRD and started writing. To this day I remember clearly what I wrote. 'The great Tatas have always been pioneers. They are the people who started the basic infrastructure industries in India, such as iron and steel, chemicals, textiles and locomotives they have cared for higher education in India since 1900 and they were responsible for the establishment of the Indian Institute of Science. Fortunately, I study there. But I am surprised how a company such as Telco is discriminating on the basis of gender.'

I posted the letter and forgot about it. Less than 10 days later, I received a telegram stating that I had to appear for an interview at Telco's Pune facility at the company's expense. I was taken aback by the telegram. My hostel mate told me I should use the opportunity to go to Pune free of cost and buy them the famous Pune saris for cheap! I collected Rs30 each from everyone who wanted a sari when I look back, I feel like laughing at the reasons for my going, but back then they seemed good enough to make the trip.

It was my first visit to Pune and I immediately fell in love with the city.

To this day it remains dear to me. I feel as much at home in Pune as I do in Hubli, my hometown. The place changed my life in so many ways. As directed, I went to Telco's Pimpri office for the interview.

There were six people on the panel and I realized then that this was serious business.

'This is the girl who wrote to JRD,' I heard somebody whisper as soon as I entered the room. By then I knew for sure that I would not get the job. The realization abolished all fear from my mind, so I was rather cool while the interview was being conducted.

Even before the interview started, I reckoned the panel was biased, so I told them, rather impolitely, 'I hope this is only a technical interview.'

They were taken aback by my rudeness, and even today I am ashamed about my attitude.  The panel asked me technical questions and I answered all of them. 

Then an elderly gentleman with an affectionate voice told me, 'Do you know why we said lady candidates need not apply? The reason is that we have never employed any ladies on the shop floor. This is not a co-ed college; this is a factory. When it comes to academics, you are a first ranker throughout. We appreciate that, but people like you should work in research laboratories.

I was a young girl from small-town Hubli. My world had been a limited place.

I did not know the ways of large corporate houses and their difficulties, so I answered, 'But you must start somewhere, otherwise no woman will ever be able to work in your factories.'

Finally, after a long interview, I was told I had been successful. So this was what the future had in store for me. Never had I thought I would take up a job in Pune. I met a shy young man from Karnataka there, we became good friends and we got married.

It was only after joining Telco that I realized who JRD was: the uncrowned king of Indian industry. Now I was scared, but I did not get to meet him till I was transferred to Bombay. One day I had to show some reports to Mr Moolgaokar, our chairman, who we all knew as SM. I was in his office on the first floor of Bombay House (the Tata headquarters) when, suddenly JRD walked in. That was the first time I saw 'appro JRD'. Appro means 'our' in Gujarati. This was the affectionate term by which people at Bombay House called him. I was feeling very nervous, remembering my postcard episode. SM introduced me nicely, 'Jeh (that's what his close associates called him), this young woman is an engineer and that too a postgraduate.

She is the first woman to work on the Telco shop floor.' JRD looked at me. I was praying he would not ask me any questions about my interview (or the postcard that preceded it).
Thankfully, he didn't. Instead, he remarked. 'It is nice that girls are getting into engineering in our country. By the way, what is your name?'
'When I joined Telco I was Sudha Kulkarni, Sir,' I replied. 'Now I am Sudha Murthy.' He smiled and kindly smile and started a discussion with SM. As for me, I almost ran out of the room.
After that I used to see JRD on and off. He was the Tata Group chairman and I was merely an engineer. There was nothing that we had in common. I was in awe of him.
One day I was waiting for Murthy, my husband, to pick me up after office hours. To my surprise I saw JRD standing next to me. I did not know how to react. Yet again I started worrying about that postcard. Looking back, I realize JRD had forgotten about it. It must have been a small incident for him, but not so for me.
'Young lady, why are you here?' he asked. 'Office time is over.' I said, 'Sir, I'm waiting for my husband to come and pick me up.' JRD said, 'It is getting dark and there's no one in the corridor.
I'll wait with you till your husband comes.'
I was quite used to waiting for Murthy, but having JRD waiting alongside made me extremely uncomfortable.
I was nervous. Out of the corner of my eye I looked at him. He wore a simple white pant and shirt. He was old, yet his face was glowing. There wasn't any air of superiority about him. I was thinking, 'Look at this person. He is a chairman, a well-respected man in our country and he is waiting for the sake of an ordinary employee.'
Then I saw Murthy and I rushed out. JRD called and said, 'Young lady, tell your husband never to make his wife wait again.' In 1982 I had to resign from my job at Telco. I was reluctant to go, but I really did not have a choice. I was coming down the steps of Bombay House after wrapping up my final settlement when I saw JRD coming up. He was absorbed in thought. I wanted to say goodbye to him, so I stopped. He saw me and paused.
Gently, he said, 'So what are you doing, Mrs. Kulkarni?' (That was the way he always addressed me.) 'Sir, I am leaving Telco.'
'Where are you going?' he asked. 'Pune, Sir. My husband is starting a company called Infosys and I'm shifting to Pune.'
'Oh! And what will you do when you are successful.'
'Sir, I don't know whether we will be successful.' 'Never start with diffidence,' he advised me 'Always start with confidence. When you are successful you must give back to society. Society gives us so much; we must reciprocate. Wish you all the best.'
Then JRD continued walking up the stairs. I stood there for what seemed like a millennium. That was the last time I saw him alive.
Many years later I met Ratan Tata in the same Bombay House, occupying the chair JRD once did. I told him of my many sweet memories of working with Telco. Later, he wrote to me, 'It was nice hearing about Jeh from you. The sad part is that he's not alive to see you today.'
I consider JRD a great man because, despite being an extremely busy person, he valued one postcard written by a young girl seeking justice. He must have received thousands of letters everyday. He could have thrown mine away, but he didn't do that. He respected the intentions of that unknown girl, who had neither influence nor money, and gave her an opportunity in his company. He did not merely give her a job; he changed her life and mindset forever.
Close to 50 per cent of the students in today's engineering colleges are girls. And there are women on the shop floor in many industry segments. I see these changes and I think of JRD. If at all time stops and asks me what I want from life, I would say I wish JRD were alive today to see how the company we started has grown. He would have enjoyed it wholeheartedly.
My love and respect for the House of Tata remains undiminished by the passage of time. I always looked up to JRD. I saw him as a role model for his simplicity, his generosity, his kindness and the care he took of his employees. Those blue eyes always reminded me of the sky; they had the same vastness and magnificence. (Sudha Murthy is a widely published writer and chairperson of the Infosys Foundation involved in a number of social development initiatives. Infosys chairman Narayana Murthy is her husband.)
Article sourced from: Lasting Legacies (Tata Review- Special Commemorative Issue 2004), brought out by the house of Tatas to commemorate the 100th birth anniversary of JRD Tata on July 29, 2004 .

Sudha Murthy and Narayana Murthy

Blogger BHASKARAN said...
TATAs are rare Phenomenon, Mark his words "When you are successful you must give back to society. Society gives us so much; we must reciprocate. Wish you all the best.' Only TATA can do this consistently. All of us have read for RATAN TATA has done for Bombay Blast victims including for the victims in the Railway station no one can forget.
September 20, 2010 6:45 AM
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Blogger Harisankar said...
Amazing. Good Post.
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Blogger sury said...
//though bit long long, it is worth it// It is worth a pound of gold for every word, nay every letter in the article. Great men help others, never expecting anything in return at any point of time. The great saint of Tamil poetry, avvayar wrote, " Nandri oruvarukku seithakkal annandri endru tharunkol ena venda " . This means, ( I assume you are not a Tamilian) never expect for a return for the kindness you exhibited in favour of any one, for the poetess continues, the coconut trees continue to give sweet water to whosoever tread the way they stand, they never get tired, nor seek or remember the address of those who they help. Tata is one such man. In the Corporate world of today, this is a rarity. Nevertheless he is there. And his name will continue to rule the ethical horizons of the world. subbu rathinam http://vazhvuneri.blogspot.com http://pureaanmeekam.blogspot.com
September 20, 2010 8:38 AM
Blogger hvaidya said...
I am very much a Tamilian, Mr.
Sury, and I am proud of saying that as much as I am an Indian
September 21, 2010 3:29 PM

Lalgudi 80 - video





Here is the link for Lalgudi 80 live programme http://www.purplestream.in/ngslive.html. 

Please keep clicking until you get this programme for the video. Hope this will be available to all those who missed, subsequently also from this site.

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Basic Essentials of Dinner Table Etiquette

We may not be able to follow all those things mentioned here. But knowing and trying to follow at least few of them will improve the standard of life. These tips may help those youngsters who are going to foreign countries, to enhance their reputation there.
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Here you will find tips on dinner table etiquette that will help you through any formal or semi formal lunch party or dinner party.
The 10 easy DO's, and 10 easy DON'Ts of good table etiquette!

But first of all, a little general advice on.....
Simple, Good Manners

* Always respond to an invitation within a week of receiving it.
* Dress according to the recommended (if any) dress code. NEVER attempt to "out dress" the hostess!
* Be punctual - never more than 10 minutes late.
* If you wish to bring a guest as your partner, good dinner table etiquette demands that you should always check with the host first. If you are the one hosting the party and a guest of yours arrives with an unexpected friend, be polite & courteous with them, and speak with your inconsiderate guest at another time!
* It is considered polite to take along a small gift for your host and hostess. Flowers, chocolates or champagne are always appreciated.

Dinner Table Etiquette - the 10 Do's!

1. Once seated, unfold your napkin and use it for occasionally wiping your lips or fingers. At the end of dinner, leave the napkin tidily on the place setting.
2. It is good dinner table etiquette to serve the lady sitting to the right of the host first, then the other ladies in a clockwise direction, and lastly the gentlemen.
3. Hold the knife and fork with the handles in the palm of the hand, forefinger on top, and thumb underneath.
4. Whilst eating, you may if you wish rest the knife and fork on either side of the plate between mouthfuls. When you have finished eating, place them side by side in the center of the plate.
5. If the food presented to you is not to your liking, it is polite to at least make some attempt to eat a small amount of it. Or at the very least, cut it up a little, and move it around the plate!
6. It is quite acceptable to leave some food to one side of your plate if you feel as though you have eaten enough. On the other hand, don't attempt to leave your plate so clean that it looks as though you haven't eaten in days!
7. Desserts may be eaten with both a spoon and fork, or alternatively a fork alone if it is a cake or pastry style sweet.
8. Should a lady wish to be excused for the bathroom, it is polite for the gentlemen to stand up as she leaves the table, sit down again, and then stand once more when she returns.
9. Always make a point of thanking the host and hostess for their hospitality before leaving.
10. It is good dinner table etiquette to send a personal thank you note to the host and hostess shortly afterwards.

Dinner Table Etiquette - the 10 Don'ts!

1. NEVER start eating before a signal from the host to do so.
2. Forks should not be turned over unless being used for eating peas, sweetcorn kernels, rice or other similar foods. In which case, it should be transferred to the right hand. However, at a casual buffet, or barbecue it is quite acceptable to eat with just a fork.
3. It is not generally regarded as good dinner table etiquette to use one's bread for dipping into soups or mopping up sauces.
4. Loud eating noises such as slurping and burping are very impolite. The number one sin of dinner table etiquette!
5. Talking with one's mouth full. is not only unpleasant to watch, but could also lead to choking! Definitely not a good idea!
6. Don't stretch across the table crossing other guests to reach food, wine or condiments. Instead ask a guest sitting close to pass the item to you.
7. Good dinner table etiquette sometimes involves a degree of diplomacy when it comes to the host's choice of food and wine! Even if you feel that you can do better, don't ever offer your criticism. If you feel unable to pay any compliments, at least remain silent on the subject.
8. Picking teeth (unless toothpicks are provided) or licking fingers are very unattractive! The only exception to the latter is when eating meat or poultry on the bone (such as chicken legs or ribs). In which case, a finger bowl should be provided.
9. Drinking too much wine can be very embarrassing! Where a different wine is served with each course, it is quite acceptable to not finish each glass.
10. Don't forget to make polite conversation with those guests around you. Dinner parties are not just about the food, they are intended to be a sociable occasion!

Blogger Harisankar said...
There are videos on youtube on dining etiquette. here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fypq2qhRZnI
September 20, 2010 9:34 AM
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Blogger Harisankar said...
i dont know about the getting up when a lady goes / comes. i have been with a bunch of people who have sent chivalry to the grave. its rolling there.
September 20, 2010 9:42 AM
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Blogger Saras said...
A friend of mine asked me what does the abbreviation RSVP on the Invitation stand for. While I was explaining to him that it was a French term "Respondez S'il Vous Plait" asking the guest to confirm his attendance my witty uncle quipped "Romba Seri Varen PO".
September 23, 2010 1:05 PM

Thursday, September 16, 2010

M.S. Subbalskshmi in 11 languages

Today being M.S. Subbalkshmi's birthday, my humble honour to her
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Download 01-Bhajare Yadunatham (Sanskrit).mp3
Download 02-Hari Bola (Marathi).mp3
Download 03-Hari Maitho (Hindi).mp3
Download 04-Ishrate Katra (Urdu).mp3
Download 05-Kahere Bana Kojana (Punjabi).mp3
Download 06-Kandu Kandu (Malayalam).mp3
Download 07-Narayana Nu (Gujarati).mp3
Download 08-Nenjukku Neethi (Tamil).mp3
Download 09-Pathithoddharini Gange (Bengali).mp3
Download 10-Vasudeva (Telugu).mp3
Download 11-Yadu Vamsa (Kannada).mp3



Blogger Hemalatha said...
Sir, What a befitting tribute to the LEGEND ! So thoughtful of you. Looks like "Mediafire" also joins us in paying tribute to MS - by ensuring uninterrupted downloading of today's post - so that we can enjoy and be mesmerised. Thanks and Regards.
September 16, 2010 10:53 PM
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    Wednesday, September 15, 2010

    Go not to the temple

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    Concert - Maali (Flute)

    The supreme Brahman, Lord Sri Krishna and The Flute are synonymous...
    It is said that the very essence of Omkaram flows out of his flute when he plays the flute. So whenever I see the flute I see the supreme lord in it. Playing flute is my puja, my prayer. We the students of Sri Krishnaa are all so blessed that we are able to play this divine instrument. I found a nice story...that might inspire all of us...Once, when a number of people were asked by Sai Baba what they would like to be in the hands of God, he got various answers: some said the Lotus, some the Shankha (Conch), some the Chakra (Discus) but no one mentioned the Murali (Flute). He advised them to become the Flute, for then the Lord will come to us, pick us up, put us to His lips and breathe through us and, out of the hollowness of our heart due to the utter absence of egoism that we have developed, He will create captivating music for all Creation to enjoy.. Inhale only the breath of God. Isn’t this feeling wonderful?

    The Legacy
    Carnatic flute was used to accompany the vocal concert & in late 90s it became s solo instrument
    Many artistes like Sharabharsahthri …were the pioneers to give it a new status. Palladam Sanjeeva Rao & Sharabha Shastry were the foremost pioneers who brought the flute to the center stage as a solo instrument. Before their period...it has been described in Natya Darpana that flute was used to accompany dance performances & also vocal concerts.
    The greatness of the carnatci flute is that even hindhusthani ragas can be played on carnatic flute but the vise versa cannot happen.
    Ragas like thodi , bhairavi , varali , anadabhairavi cannot be played on a six holed hindhusthani flute.

    Krishna’s leacacy got continued & was passed on to great flute players
    written by V.K. Raman
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    1. http://www.mediafire.com/?qxdbjtxmx18a6qb Endhuku - Sankarabaranam 
    2. http://www.mediafire.com/?oo5uk5p1b6gd1s2 Ennadu - Balahamsa 
    3. http://www.mediafire.com/?5w0u2x27dwv1t9x Sree raama paadhama - Amruthavauhini 
    4. http://www.mediafire.com/?a09xdjl176hzry1 Anudhinamu - Begadaa  
    5. http://www.mediafire.com/?mtosaaf8aoxtl5a Dhaarini - Sudhdhasaaveri 
    6. http://www.mediafire.com/?8489tq5tlrhz5lo Ela avathaara - Mukhaari 
    7. http://www.mediafire.com/?noq3anmn8zkenfv Paramaathmudu - Vaagadeeswari 
    8. http://www.mediafire.com/?2sbcbsmu8qjh6qw RTP - Jhonpuri  
    9. http://www.mediafire.com/?qan27cck55r9e3o Sakhi prana - Senchurutti 
    10. http://www.mediafire.com/?yr8jnnbi48a8qa4 Themmaangu  
    11. http://www.mediafire.com/?x9bni74ti1asnj7 Chinnanchiru - Kaapi - Raagamalika

    Tuesday, September 14, 2010

    My diary - 14 th September 2010

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    Dear friends,

    With great difficulty and protracted follow up, I could extract this reply from mediafire team, which is self explanatory.

    I am being flooded with mails and comments on "unable to download" issue. Please be patient, until "mediafire" set right its server problem. Hope we will have relief as early as possible.


    fromKaren
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    tohariharan.vaidayanathan@gmail.com
    dateMon, Sep 13, 2010 at 11:41 PM
    subject[#WBH-797703]: uploaded files are not able to be downloaded by my customer
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    Hello,

    Thank you for contacting Mediafire.  Our technical department has been hard at work isolating the exact cause for this error 22 continuing to occur with the Mediafire files. They have assured me at this point that once a file has been restored to working service, it will not go down again due to this particular error.

    While this is normally an error that rarely occurs and our technical department is able to repair the error within a matter of a couple of hours of it being reported, this particular instance has been more difficult to isolate and repair.  They should have this particular issue fully restored within a week as it is taking this amount of time for our back up servers to catch up with the updates considering the number of files we store.  Once this has been completed we should no longer see these errors on our servers and have been able to implement a quick fix to repair any isolated incidences.

    We value your membership and look forward to working with you in the future. Thank you for your patience in this matter. If there is anything we can assist you with please let us know.

    Best Regards,

    Karen
    The MediaFire Team

    Blogger BHASKARAN said...
    May GOD give you enough patience so that we can benefit out of it. Let us not talk about Indian's attitude and quality of service it is there all over the world. We need to put up with them Regards bhaskaran
    September 14, 2010 11:42 AM

    Monday, September 13, 2010

    My diary - 13th September 2010

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    Dear friends,

    As I have already explained to you, the problems I am facing with mediafire,  i.e. not only certain files are removed, but certain fresh files I upload are also not opening. In spite of myself uploading again and again with fresh URL s you are not in a position to download.

    Hence, I have uploaded the song "Kelathi mama" in Balamuralikrishna - Sadasiva brahmendra now under rapidshare. Similarly I have up loaded the song "Sree raama paadhama" in Concert No. 116 -  D. K. Pattammaal  also  under rapidshare.

    I am very sorry for the inconvenience caused to you all, and I will try to do my best to keep you all happy. However, we can't help to the fact that we are under the mercy of these sites.

    Since relocating the missing files from my hard discs and re uploading the files consumes lot of time and place me also into stress and strain, please bear with me for the delays in attending to your comments. I will certainly strain my every nerve and leave no stone unturned to solve the problems you are facing and continue to serve you better.

    I thank all those members, who are prepared to help me in this crisis and I will be ever grateful for their efforts.

    Blogger Hemalatha said...
    Sir, Thanks for your immediate response to solving both the files. Able to download them now. Thanks and Regards
    September 14, 2010 1:12 AM
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    Anonymous Anonymous said...
    Sir, Have you tried http://www.4shared.com/ for online storage? There is also the option of using www.dropbox.com. Please avoid rapidshare as much as possible :)
    September 14, 2010 7:14 AM
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    Blogger hvaidya said...
    I have internet back up through Carbonite. Unluckily, I paid and got registered only recently and many of my music files are in external hard discs which are not backed up there. It backs up only the files in my laptop which is having no space to add further. I am planning to improve my Laptop disc space further in a week and then I will get all my files backed up at Carbonite. If my 500 GB hard disc which crashed is restored, perhaps I will be able to post all the lost files again
    September 14, 2010 8:45 AM

    Dr. Balamuralikrishna - Sadasiva Brahmendra

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    Download 01--thunga-tharangee-gange.mp3
    Download 02--sthiratha-nahi-nahi-re.mp3
    Download 03--smara-vaaram-vaaram.mp3
    Download 04--sarvam-brmma-mayam.mp3
    Download 05--pibare-ramarasam.mp3
    Download 06--maanasa-sancarare.mp3
    Download 07--kelathi-mama.mp3
    Download 08--gayathi-vanamaali.mp3
    Download 09--chintha-nasthikilam.mp3
    Download 10--chethaka-sri-ramam.mp3
    Download 11-ramajogi-mandhukonare.mp3



      Anonymous Anonymous said...
      Sir I think "Ramajogi Mandu konare" is Bhadrachala Ramadasu Keertana.. But not SSB keertana.
      September 13, 2010 2:03 PM
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      Blogger hvaidya said...
      You are correct. This is the song of Bhadrachala Ramdhas. I am very sorry for the error.
      September 13, 2010 2:52 PM
      Blogger Hemalatha said...
      Sir, Excellent !!!!!! Regards
      September 13, 2010 1:27 AM
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      Blogger r b subramanian said...
      Dear Sri Hariharan, Song :Kelathi Mama Hridaye- is not downloadable. can you please check it up? Thanks and regards rbs
      September 13, 2010 5:54 AM
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      Blogger BHASKARAN said...
      Thank you so much for this vintage collection. One small problem I am unable to download Kelathi Mama - the error messsage is You can retry your request in a few minutes or contact support. Please reference the file URL and the error code -22. Please help Regards bhaskaran
      September 13, 2010 7:09 AM
        Blogger hvaidya said...
        Since you had problem in downloading Kelathi mama in spite of my self up loading again and again I have uploaded this song in rapidshare.
        September 13, 2010 10:39 PM

        Anonymous Anonymous said...
        The picture on the right is of śrīdhara vēnkaṭēśvara ayyāvāḷ, not of sadāśiva brahmēndra.
        October 3, 2010 11:48 AM
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        Blogger hvaidya said...
        I am sorry for losing the concentration. I have corrected the photo. Thanks a lot for pointing out the error
        October 3, 2010 4:29 PM

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