Mehdi Hassan Ghazals - 14

Life can begin at 50/60 ...70/80

Begin LIFE at 50/60 .../70/80

Many people feel unhappy, health-wise and security-wise, after 50/60 70/80 
years of age owing to the diminishing importance given to them and their 
opinions. But, it need not be so, if only we understand the basic principles 
of life and follow them scrupulously. 

Here are ten mantras to age gracefully, make life after retirement pleasant, enjoy and treasure the elder years of wisdom and intelligence at its best. 

1. Never say 'I am aged': 

There are three ages, chronological, biological, and psychological. The 
first is calculated based on our date of birth; the second is determined by 
the health conditions and the third is how old you feel you are. While we 
don't have control over the first, we can take care of our health with good 
diet, exercise and a cheerful attitude. A positive attitude and optimistic 
thinking can reverse the third age. 

2. Health is wealth: 

If you really love your kids and kin, taking care of yourself and your 
health should be your priority. Thus, you will not be a burden to them. Have 
an annual health check-up and take the prescribed medicines regularly. Take out a health care insurance coverage. 

3. Money is important: 

Money is essential for meeting the basic necessities of life, keeping good 
health and earning family respect and security. Don't spend beyond your 
means even for your children. You have lived for them through out and it is 
time you enjoyed a harmonious life with your spouse. If your children are 
grateful they should take care of you. But never take it for granted. 

4. Relaxation and recreation: 

The most relaxing and recreating forces are healthy and religious attitudes, 
good sleep, music and laughter. Have faith in God, learn to sleep well, 
love good music, and see the fun side of life. 

5. Time is precious: 

It is almost like holding a horse's reins. When they are in your hands, 
you can control them. Imagine that every day you are born again. Yesterday is 
a payed cheque. Tomorrow is a promissory note. Today is ready cash. 
use it profitably. Live this moment. 

6. Change is the only permanent thing: 

We should accept change — it is inevitable. The only way to make sense 
out of change is to join the dance. Change has brought about many pleasant 
things. We should be happy that our children are blessed. 

7. Enlightened selfishness: 

All of us are basically selfish. Whatever we do, we expect something in 
return. We should definitely be grateful to those who stood by us. But, our 
focus should be on the internal satisfaction and happiness we derive by doing 
good to others, without expecting anything in return. 

8. Forget and forgive: 

Don't be bothered too much about others' mistakes. We are not spiritual 
enough to show our other cheek when we are slapped on one cheek. But, for the sake 
of our own health and happiness, let us forgive and forget them. Otherwise, 
we will only be increasing our BP. 

9. Everything has a reason; a purpose: 

Take life as it comes. Accept yourself as you are and also accept others 
for what they are. Everybody is unique and right in their own ways. 

10. Overcome the fear of death: 

We all know that one day we have to leave this world. Still we are afraid 
of death. We think that our spouse and children will be unable to withstand 
our loss. But, the truth is that no one is going to die for you; they may be 
depressed for some time. Time heals everything and they will carry on. 

NOBODY GETS OUT OF THIS WORLD ALIVE!

Regardless How Far The Journey Is OR How Capable We Are, We Do Our Best To 
Reach Our Goal. This Is Perseverance At Its Best ... 

 Anonymous said...

Nice, Superb... :)

November 17, 2011 3:15 PM

 Anonymous said...

<"If your children are
grateful they should take care of you"> ????

This is the most sadistic attitude a parent can have.

If someone believes in this, they have to ask to themselves -> Did parents have children just so that there will be someone to take care of them when parents are old?

Children should take care of parents out of their own decision. Elders can start to conduct themselves worthy of such a decision.

November 20, 2011 9:37 PM

 BALAJI K said...

Thank you so much for sharing this wonderful piece of advice , received by me during my retirement period. Very positive attitudes nourish my mind! _ K.Balaji

November 24, 2011 2:34 PM