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Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Ten Point Program for happy Family

Dada Vaswani, head of Sadhu Vaswani 
Mission is a great Philanthropist, Philosopher, Author, Poet and a 
thrilling international speaker.   During his last visit to Chicago he 
presented at Chinmaya Mission Chicago a talk on "Art of Happy Home and 
Family".  During his talk he gave ten point practical advise for house 
holder to make the home a happy home.  He concentrated on developing the 
understanding for the others (Not with mind but with heart).

Here are excerpts of the ten points:

1. Avoid the next quarrel: Never lose temper at the same time. Don't let the sun set on your 
quarrels (Never prolong fights if at all started). It is OK to say "I am sorry"

2. Do not expect perfection from your spouse: Marriage is coming together of two imperfect beings. Don't expect wife or husband to like this or that, accept them as they are.

3. Be a Good Listener:  Think before speaking, it is a good idea to weigh before you speak. You are master of unspoken words but slave of spoken words. Better than 
listening from ear is listening through mind (with attention) and better than that is listening from heart. 

4. Be a good forgiver: Some people forgive but they keep the memory alive or they forgive 
conditionally. Forgiveness should be complete and unconditional.

5. Grow in the spirit of humility: Be humble. Egos bring arrogance which divide and separate people. 

6. Learn the art of appreciation: We all like to be appreciated. Always appreciate in front of others. 
Never criticize in a company of friends and relatives, you will get 
opportunities in privacy.

7. Do not argue: Winning love and friendship is far greater than winning an argument. It is OK 
to discuss with a open mind. Learn to win love and affection rather than arguments. 

8. Develop healthy sense of humor: Learn to laugh and be cheerful. It is a great tonic for healthy living 
and being accepted by friends. It is important to laugh with others and 
NOT at others. 

9. Always lend a helpful hand: You will win over if you have this attitude of offering a helpful hand with or without asking. 

10. Bring GOD back into your home: This is one of the most important one. Have a common time for prayers. It 
brings families together. Families that pray together stays together.

Sent by Mr. K.N. Ramesh

Blogger BHASKARAN19 said...

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December 16, 2011 7:40 AM

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...that life is about your soul, not about your body and
not about your mind.

Most people work hard to keep the body happy. Then
they seek to stimulate their mind. Then...if there is time...
they look after their soul. Yet the most beneficial priority
has it just the other way around.

When was the last time you paid attention to your soul?

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December 15, 2011 9:25 PM