Think of your Parents

This was a mail received by me from my cousin's daughter Shrilaxmi. Since I thought it needs widespread readership, I am posting this here. Please make as many youngsters to read it.

This was narrated by an IAF pilot to IIT students during a Seminar on

Human Relations:

Venkatesh Balasubramaniam (who works for IIT) describes how his gesture

of booking an air ticket for his father, his maiden flight, brought

forth a rush of emotions and made him (Venkatesh) realize that how much

we all take for granted when it comes to our parents.

My parents left for our native place on Thursday and we went to the

airport to see them off. In fact, my father had never traveled by air

before, so I just took this opportunity to make him experience the same.

In spite of being asked to book tickets by train, I got them tickets on

Jet Airways. The moment I handed over the tickets to him, he was

surprised to see that I had booked them by air. The excitement was very

apparent on his face, waiting for the time of travel. Just like a school

boy, he was preparing himself on that day and we all went to the

airport, right from using the trolley for his luggage, the baggage

check-in and asking for a window seat and waiting restlessly for the

security check-in to happen. He was thoroughly enjoying himself and I,

too, was overcome with joy watching him experience all these things.

As they were about to go in for the security check-in, he walked up to

me with tears in his eyes and thanked me. He became very emotional and

it was not as if I had done something great but the fact that this meant

a great deal to him.

When he said thanks, I told him there was no need to thank me. But

later, thinking about the entire incident, I looked back at my life. As

a child, how many dreams our parents have made come true. Without

understanding the financial situation, we ask for cricket bats, dresses,

toys, outings, etc. Irrespective of their affordability, they have

catered to all our needs. Did we ever think about the sacrifices they

had to make to accommodate many of our wishes? Did we ever say thanks

for all that they have done for us? Same way, today when it comes to our

children, we always think that we should put them in a good school.

Regardless of the amount of donation, we will ensure that we will have

to give the child the best, theme parks, toys, etc. But we tend to

forget that our parents have sacrificed a lot for our sake to see us

happy, so it is our responsibility to ensure that their dreams are

realized and what they failed to see when they were young. It is our

responsibility to ensure that they experience all those and their life

is complete. Many times, when my parents had asked me some questions, I

have actually answered back without patience. When my daughter asks me

something, I have been very polite in answering. Now I realize how they

would have felt at those moments.

Let us realize that old age is a second childhood and just as we take

care of our children, the same attention and same care needs to be given

to our parents and elders. Rather than my dad saying thank you to me, I

would want to say sorry for making him wait so long for this small

dream. I do realize how much he has sacrificed for my sake and I will do

my best to give the best possible attention to all their wishes.

Just because they are old does not mean that they will have to give up

everything and keep sacrificing for their grandchildren also. They have

wishes, too.

Take care of your parents TOO. THEY ARE PRECIOUS.

Affectionately,
Shri :)